"Closing the Bones"Although we have mostly lost our tradition of "Churching", after which the Mother would resume her normal role in society. In many cultures, the first 40 days post partum is still regarded as sacred time in which to nurture an new Mother.
In South America, a new Mum might have her bones closed as many as 5 times during this time, beginning within just hours of childbirth, and on the 41st day after childbirth, her "return" to everyday life would traditionally be marked by a full Closing the Bones Ceremony. |
So what is bone closing and what happens during a Closing the Bones Ceremony?
Bone Closing includes an abdominal massage aimed at assisting the Mother's body to return to it's pre-pregnancy state. Once this is complete, rebozos are used to gently rock and bind the hips, to help bring stability and strength back to the pelvic girdle. The recipient is then left to release and rest a while in a relaxed and deeply held state, before gently untying the rebozo and offering time for the new mother to come round slowly... A full ceremony includes elements to provide an even deeper nurturing experience and encourage the release of any emotion associated with her birthing experience. The form it takes is discussed with the recipient in advance and might include, for example, space clearing, wrapping the whole body in rebozos and ceremonial reading of poetry and song. |
Witnessing a mother's emotional release can be a deeply moving and spiritual experience. Group ceremonies can be arranged if desired, with the Mother inviting her closest female friends to participate in the ceremony, with the group helping to sing, wrap and bind, and sharing tea with her afterwards.
Although traditionally offered after childbirth, a Closing the Bones Ceremony can helpfully be administered long after a woman has given birth and after other forms of trauma, too. At a time when attention is often directed towards the baby, a Closing the Bones Ceremony could be that perfect gift for a new mother, as an alternative to a Baby Shower or as a Mother's Day Blessing. Julia is happy to introduce this idea to Women's and Mother & Baby Groups. If you'd like to book, or find out more, give her a call on 07833 545 008. |